穿梭於浮與沉之間 (決定篇)

younghorse

raymond888 發表於 2011-6-22 20:17
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其實我覺得穿梭還穿梭,我覺得今次出事,是我把囡囡地位定位錯了,硬要將二号變第一号, ...

We have to find out what we really need first. Don't misplace the purposes and the needs...

BOND007

raymond888 發表於 2011-6-22 20:17
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其實我覺得穿梭還穿梭,我覺得今次出事,是我把囡囡地位定位錯了,硬要將二号變第一号, ...

咁如果包二奶又點睇呢？咁樣定位就冇錯，老婆仍然第一、二奶第二......真羨慕嗰啲大軍閥......太太、姨太太、三姨太、四姨太、五姨太、六姨太、七姨太、八姨太、九姨太、十姨太、十一姨太、十二姨太、十三姨太....

阿力達

younghorse 發表於 2011-6-22 20:41
We have to find out what we really need first. Don't misplace the purposes and the needs...

It's easy to said than done

ouou

為家庭放棄囡囡是合情合理的

小雞子

raymond888 發表於 2011-6-22 20:17
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其實我覺得穿梭還穿梭,我覺得今次出事,是我把囡囡地位定位錯了,硬要將二号變第一号, ...

始終有家室，玩得尅制d 好

lks

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冇浪費我打了咁多字 reply 你,

雖然唔知你有冇睇.....

lks

younghorse 發表於 2011-6-22 20:41
We have to find out what we really need first. Don't misplace the purposes and the needs...

when use  "9" thinking will combine 2 of things...  

mcdullpig

raymond888 發表於 2011-6-22 13:11
如不知事情經過的請看  http://141hongkong.com/forum/thread-754358-1-1.html

首先多謝各位師兄的關心。 ...

講得出
一定要做得到
又要一直向前
絕不回頭
遁得連眼尾都不要回看一下
再過多一兩星期心裡有點痛及空檔假象期
自然會洗出輕功水上(浮上水)

BOND007

mcdullpig 發表於 2011-6-22 23:32
講得出
一定要做得到
又要一直向前

Mcdullpig兄，你令我想起一對對聯：

上水居民居水上
長州賓客XXX

raymond888

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有這麼多姨太太未必好事，過時過節要準備十幾份禮物，仲要差不多價值，很煩啊！哈哈

raymond888

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全部睇晒，謝謝關心

tensun

好多時沉船都係我地 d 麻甩佬自作多情姐, 條女只係想你幫襯多幾次, 貼士鬆手 d, 送多 d 禮物咁, 佢地諗都冇諗過想你離婚娶佢. 你如果真係離婚分分鐘會嚇走佢添.

出得黎玩沉係一個必經嘅階段, 你識得浮返上黎咪得囉, 唔使太介意. 如果食親 d 女都衰到冇辦法令你沉都算係一種悲哀.

hckb

恭喜ching作出大部份人也認為正確的決定！
#7小弟不太認同，熟客的目的不是得到更好服務，在囡囡心中的熟客是付出更多金錢，得到更少服務。

黃種人

出来玩只是发洩，太認真就會出事！

younghorse

I think the very ture fact is that the time we spend with these gals is usually good, because we don't need to think about the daily hassles (job, family, home stuff and kid's burdens) when we are with them in either their workplace or private deals.  Besides the change in the format of relationship with our tigers (from passionate love to deep feeling/mutual understanding), our real and normal lifes are much tougher.  Just think about that: if the gals we sink are put into the same situation as our tigers, I believe we would not "sink" with them any more, at least in the medium run.

Having said that, I have not yet fully jumped out from my sinking....

leeayae

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I think all relationships start like that, you wouldn't think too much about the future on the first few dates.

I am in the exact same situation as this c-hing, has wife and a daughter but I only sink because my wife and I no longer have the same love feeling in the beginning. I end the sink boat relationship because she has to get back to work and my EQ is not high enough to tolerate it. I did think about committing to this sink boat relationship but when you start to think about the age differences, the culture differences, her need of money and my family responsibility you just know it's not going to work out at the end.

younghorse

leeayae 發表於 2011-6-23 17:27
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I think all relationships start like that, you wouldn't think too much about ...

Same case as mine.  The differece is that I have three kids instead of one.

I am testing my EQ now though. I completely agree with your view that there is no future for this type of sinking relationship.  The difference between the two are too wide - family, age, culture and commitment.  But I find out that the biggest issue is that difference in value concept.  Once a gal starts to work for a reasonable amount of time (probably only two weeks), her value concept has entirely changed.  Although we and our boats first met in the same place, our value concept are very different - they work whist we play....

lks

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You speak out what the mainpoint inside my feeling
"we don't need to think about the daily hassles"   

so I very enjoy to sink

lks

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"about the age differences, the culture differences, her need of money and my family responsibility you"

It is a difficults, but I know few guys they can over all of these difficults and have a happy ending with the girl.

lks

younghorse 發表於 2011-6-23 17:35
Same case as mine.  The differece is that I have three kids instead of one.  

I am testing ...

If you without kids and still singal, will you wishes have future with your boat?