I know how you feel bro. I am going through my own pain for having fallen for someone whom I should have never fallen for. It is not going to work out no matter what I do. I guess, afterall, we are all just human.
(Some bros may know I am not in HK at this moment. I traveled all the way to Japan to see the one whom I have fallen for but things just don't work out).
原帖由 tux1 於 2008-11-10 18:23 發表
I know how you feel bro. I am going through my own pain for having fallen for someone whom I should have never fallen for. It is not going to work out no matter what I do. I guess, afterall, we are al ...
very true, in the very end, we become to 2 diff worlds and things just can't work out.....
Same as me - until now I never have an intention to make love with her. It is all about the feeling that hit me so suddenly and uncontrollably. Making love to me will just be a side effect if we are really together, which is not going to happen.
Like other C-hing said I will wish her all the best but what really hurts is, not even the love cannot eventuate, I can not even keep her as a friend. I always believe we can continue to be friends but this cannot even happen. This is really very painful.
I am really trying hard to do this. I wish her well, but it is very very painful, in particular when she does not want to be just a normal friend. (I always believe it is possible to stay as friends even if a relationship cannot eventuate ..... but it does not happen )
This is understandable, but it is almost always easy to say but hard to do.
That's why I don't mind sharing my painful experience here because I hope a lot of the C-hings will support me (like I support lich13) so that I can get through this. I feel that it is most difficult to get over if you just keep thinking alone and not relieving the pain / pressure.
I only go to Macau for one thing (you can easily tell what it is from my other posts in this forum). I sunk boat badly because of it. Am I good or bad? I don't know. But I do believe I gave everything for her.
Same as me - until now I never have an intention to make love with her. It is all about the feeling that hit me so suddenly and uncontrollably. Making love to me will just be a side effect if we are really together, which is not going to happen.
Like other C-hing said I will wish her all the best but what really hurts is, not even the love cannot eventuate, I can not even keep her as a friend. I always believe we can continue to be friends but this cannot even happen. This is really very painful.
This is understandable, but it is almost always easy to say but hard to do.
That's why I don't mind sharing my painful experience here because I hope a lot of the C-hings will support me (like I support lich13) so that I can get through this. I feel that it is most difficult to get over if you just keep thinking alone and not relieving the pain / pressure.
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