Met a 17 years old girl.

GacktC

Hello all C-hings,
Sorry again my topic has nothing to do with service provider...but I have no where to express my feelings toward this young girl.
I am on my vacation from my regular job at the moment, and looking after my friend's shop in a week. My friend has his fellow mentor's (famous Chinese painter in the States) daughter look after the shop in some afternoon after her school.
First time I met her I was shock; really pretty face, nice body, around 5'3" with eyes can smile & talk very polite. She was born in the States but with good Chinese speaking. The only problem is she is into J-rock and American's Nu-metal music; so her hair is dyed to jet black. She is also into animation ( Nana, Death notes, Naruto..etc).
Anywaz, she has nothing negative feeling to me during the first met, and her smile was really charming.
I saw her again a day ago when I was cleaning & doing inventory of my friend's shop. I was 4 hours late there, I told her and she just laugh and asked me is it really no one look after the shop in the morning?
When we were cleaning the shop together, we talked more..I asked her if she likes the Japanese band "dir en grey", she said the band is her FAV ( I am into that band too), then we talked more about the band and the upcoming concert in the States. Then I realized she likes Misa in the Death note( she shown me pix later as she dress up like Misa at an anime convension), but she hasn't watch the Death note pt3 movie; so I promised I will let her to borrow.
She then told me later she is into photography and taking class in her high school, and I was grautaed from an art school with photography degree! so we talked more on pictures talking and share experience.
She shown me lots of things we both like on the computer and different websites; from scary movies to everything( I thought I was the only person into those).
The converstaion between us was like never end on that day, we have so much to talk about & seems like she is the kind of friend I've been waiting to meet for long long time.
She is way too young for me, but I really hope she has a bright future. It is so hard to see someone is so beautiful & being artistic.
I promised to bring her movies on Thursday, IDK..the feeling is strange..
Met a "100% girl" but I am too old for that.
Cheers.

Happppy

Bro GacktC,

Long time no chat.

She is great and there is no boundary between two consenting people.... and since you have genuine affinity on eachother,age should not be the barrier... most of all you both share a lot of things in common.

Keep it going and have a beautiful future with her.  She will be yours....

GacktC

Happppy c-hing,
How are you? She is nice enough to be a friend to chat with, besides that, I can't ask for anything more.
Sometimes I feel like I am a trash, girls with 20% of her beauty I don't even have guts to ask out..
Maybe just me..
Sad, isn't it?
Cheers!

baller4984

well, how does she feel about you?

GacktC

C-hing,
She doesn't against me ...but since I only know her for 2 days (5 hours in total).
I think she is too young for me even we have many things in common. Sadly to say all the female around my age or 5-7 years younger than me; I have problems to communicate with them.
Funny about this young girl is, I don't afraid of her, maybe she is pretty straight forward about many things ( she is ABC...maybe that's why).
I am not planning to have any further relationship with her; I still have my bottom line.
Sometimes it is hard to find a friend like that...very rare in my case.
Cheers!

lich13

Haven't seen u for a long while~

How's doing?

Lynch

i believe people who love art are more open-minded

they value feeling and taste more than sheer good look and youth

you two have a solid ground to build on to a romance

ching please do not miss this great chance

at least please try, being patient

i am so envious

write a love letter to her or

just write something to show your admiration and affection when the time is ripe

GO GO

Happppy

原帖由 Lynch 於 2008-10-30 21:47 發表
i believe people who love art are more open-minded

they value feeling and taste more than sheer good look and youth

you two have a solid ground to build on to a romance

ching please do not miss th ...

I totally agree with bro Lynch...

Life is short, and bro GacktC, and you should always "siege the moment".... before you will regret for the whole life.

The reasoning is like this....

She is young and she is pure.

For you even if you guys do not develop into a long term, what you offer her is invaluable, life experience, feeling, appreciation, sharing.

She is obviously a great girl, pure in heart and learning about life...

She is pure and want to learn and she is likely not care how old you are.

Not only sex.

Just get to know each other, share life together for a while, that feeling that you can and you will share you love... is just great.

Now, you are down right dirty.

That is fine... we all are, but sharing is part of happiness.  Without sharing, happiness is not what happiness is for life.

You meet with her, share with her, tickle her, tease her, make her happy.

Have sex with her, share with her feeling, touch her, help her to reach orgasm, make her happy...

That is the purpose of life.

Go for it.

lich13

It reli depends IHMO

Gals like to be taking care in the end--- some prefer "daddies" (ages difference between 6-10 or older) while some prefer "brother" (diffrences in age between 0 to 5).  

I tried 15yr-CBC when I was 20. We did have romantic moments (2 months? I don't remember how long it is ) and we ML for almost every fucking single night

Well, I am a FOB (Fresh on Board) who eat CBCS. I think in the end what girls need is your genuineness--- the great thing for CBCs is "自動波" --- if they like you (not you in specific but you in general) , they would show you the sign .

That's the beauty of CBCs--- that's how I met anothee CBCS in my life-- my ex-wife. Well she has a similar back-ground with C-hing's gal--- locals who love Asian pop-culture speaks perfect Cantonese. To make it short, she can be fobby if she wants. (Her white-washed fds don't like me cuz I'm a true FOB )   Well, the funny thing is it is her to take initiatives to date... And that's how we get married....     

Don't ask me how we get divorsed

ANyhow, what I try to say is C-hing, go for what u want
Don't give a damn to any comment around u. In the end, relation is a matter between two indicividuals--ignore any pressure around u

[ 本帖最後由 lich13 於 2008-10-31 03:51 編輯 ]

lich13

原帖由 Happppy 於 2008-10-31 00:41 發表


I totally agree with bro Lynch...

Life is short, and bro GacktC, and you should always "siege the moment".... before you will regret for the whole life.

The reasoning is like this....

She is youn ...

I used to think in that way........ given I have eaten so many Teenage gals.

But now I would set a bottom-line to my own reagrding sex-- let her to decide whether I could take over her purity (varginity). Some could barely let me play their pussies when some let me to be their first men...

Anyway, I would make clear to gals whether they reli want to be me or simply they like the feelings I give. For those former and truly pure gals (judged from their behaviour and personality), I won't cuz I know I'm not a good man for them.  (probably kinda gult after my failure of marriage)  

For those who are slutty, I would do whatever I could

GacktC

I saw her eariler today at my friend's shop. When my friend was there, she was afraid to talk(my friend knows her dad well). When my friend walked outside for a little while, we just started talking & let her to borrow my CDs which I promised to bring her lastime. She told me what movie she watched lastnight, and we both haven't watch "Batman return"...
IDK, its getting kind of embarass. If it keeps being like this, everyone will make fun of me

Lynch

原帖由 GacktC 於 2008-10-31 13:58 發表
I saw her eariler today at my friend's shop. When my friend was there, she was afraid to talk(my friend knows her dad well). When my friend walked outside for a little while, we just started talking & ...

"When my friend was there, she was afraid to talk(my friend knows her dad well). " --

this shows she feels there is something intimate between you two

you 've a chance !

but i think it's in an early stage, so be patient

watching films together is an excellent chance to change her world-view

i recommend "lost in translation" for you to watch together

better watch it yourself first to formulate some ideas to share with her

and in reality the beautiful Sacrlett Johansson was affected by her role in this film and later fell in love with a man 17 yrs older than her --

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0424060/bio

--the eighth item in Trivia

GacktC

Thank you c-hing,
IDK, I feel like its a slim chance & if I really go for it, it will be lots of obsticles..and she will be the one taking the most pressure. This is hard if even just take her out to see a movie or Macdonalds; my friend and her parents really watching her.
She is totally into scary movies like Hostel, Saw 1-5, Texas chainsaw,masicare...and I cannot take scary, gross & glory movies at ALL!!
I just feel tired and shouldn't have a feel about young girl..
It is kind of strange..6 years ago, I did went out with a 17 yrs old girl ( just friend, no sex). Few months ago, I met one at work (always disturb me and ask me to take her out for dinner).
Maybe I am just retarded as a teenager ( infact, many of my friends are teenagers or in early 20's)...feeling like I cannot catch up with friends around my age, or women around my age don't even like to talk to me..
Am I more of a loser? Only can be friends with teenagers??

GacktC

Met her again today, since it was Helloween, she dressed up gothically nicely w/ nice pink dress. First thing I said to her was," you dress up so lovely today, and who got you the dress?". Then she told me her mom made it for her & she made the headband herself, then I asked her to make me one nextime & kept giving her thumbs-up.
Her friends were there as well, so I offered them candies to break the ice...things worked out so far, then the friends walked out for soda pops.
I asked her for candies to eat since I didn't eat anything for the whole day...my friend's mother in law was there too, so I have had to talk very smoothly.
She talked to me more this time with concerning & always looked at what I was doing. She even got really close to me all the time; sometime I couldn't even know she was right next to me
Now I can't even have my bottomline stands still, I just let everything goes naturally.
Her parents came after awhile & pickup her friends( all Gothic look) to trick'n treat, seems her parents( both are Artists) are really open minded as well.
Now I feel more calm & more as a mankind. In my previous relationships; I always felt like an animal ( always have the word "sex" in my mind).
This time is more like a life, experience teaching and learning session from eachother.
Cheers.
P.S. I don't think I will give a damn to anyone think..at the current moment, I do think I really like her.

[ 本帖最後由 GacktC 於 2008-11-1 20:32 編輯 ]

tomcat

原帖由 GacktC 於 2008-11-1 18:07 發表
Met her again today, since it was Helloween, she dressed up gothically nicely w/ nice pink dress. First thing I said to her was," you dress up so lovely today, and who got you the dress?". Then she to ...

haha....mindkind and animal

GacktC

I can show you my target if you have time( I will tell you where and when, but don't freaking talk to me & cause troubles..otherwise you will see a SR15), and after you take care of that Integra crap!
Good luck to you.

baller4984

well, may be, just maye be she is the one, however, like you have said.. it won't be easy. I hope you guys will be happy.

GacktC

If she is a guy; we could be very good friends..she plays video games ( she wants " call of duty 4" & I let her borrow my "silenct hill"). She was building & painting a Gundam the other day; guess she was having fun.
Just hate to meet the "one" after long long years~~I kind of " smell the good oder from the coffin"..haha.
Life is sux, isn't it?
I guess I will go see her tomorrow and tease her..see how she reacts. It is so fun to tease her; she won't get mad & try to answer the question in HER logical way

lich13

原帖由 GacktC 於 2008-11-1 18:07 發表
Met her again today, since it was Helloween, she dressed up gothically nicely w/ nice pink dress. First thing I said to her was," you dress up so lovely today, and who got you the dress?". Then she to ...

C-hing, go go go!

IMHO, this is called "love"-- once u could overcome yr only hunger for sex   

Yr affection recalled my previous romantic marriage-- once there was a lovely girl who made me human, but noe she is gone...
So 珍惜眼前人

lich13

原帖由 GacktC 於 2008-11-3 22:48 發表
If she is a guy; we could be very good friends..she plays video games ( she wants " call of duty 4" & I let her borrow my "silenct hill"). She was building & painting a Gundam the other day; guess she ...

haha, man, all u need is a company  

Forget all the potential obstacles

Trust me, my previous relationship have even more obstacles...