男女關係 - 想不通

Lars12345

很遺憾，你已出局了。
縱使你不説，也要有别别人早晚會知的準備。
面對現實，你這邊厢不能接受她追求者衆，那邊厢却去買歡。
同樣地，如果她用情不專，又嫌棄你買歡，
不能不説只許州官放火，不准百姓點燈。
有必要看得出的女人會看得出這些。

A050

Before you consider whether you should tell her about your 141 experience, do you think she will tell you how many men she has slept with?  If not, then why should you tell her?

The way I see it, she is being selfish.  She is coming back to your arms only because she broke up (not necessarily because she loves you).  More importantly, she is still making herself available to potential suitors.  Question: How many men is she making herself available to?  She is obviously just using you as a safety net.

Whether you should continue to visit 141 is an entirely different issue.  Don't mix up the issues.

補充內容 (2013-11-11 04:51):
I'm sorry but I have to say this: she is another "kong lady" who thinks she's better than she really is.  If she can't commit to a 1-to-1 relationship, there is no reason why you should.

Macheungkin

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Lars12345

真相痛一時，謊言痛一世。
(伊比利亞諺語)

namgor

啱咪一齊，吾啱咪散囉，不需想太多